The Game II...

If the number one reason given to why a couple breaks up is communication problems, then why do couples insist on playing "The Game"?

On one hand everyone agrees that communication is vital to a relationships survival.
On the other some tend to think that playing a game at your communication, (omitting, hiding or downright lying about what is going on, what thoughts are, what was meant etc) is the only way to end up WITH good communication. Only... once the game starts in earnest..I say it is unstoppable without concerted effort from BOTH parties. So, therefore the reason one started the game contends with how one gets out of it.

You cannot build strong communication by setting your foundation on "The Game"